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Jul 18, 2012
07/12
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Hoffman, Barry
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After each story ... a list of questions and activites for the readers, as well as parents and teachers ... for discussion, debate and even argument"--Introduction
Topics: Selfishness, Spousal abuse, Obesity, Obesity, Selfishness, Spousal abuse
Mrs. Rudd was led into serious trouble by sexual impropriety. Her husband was insane and abusive, and she took legal steps to keep him away from her. After having fled and disguised herself under a false name for a number of months, her life settled down when Mr. Rudd emigrated and she was left a large inheritance by a friend who felt sorry for her. She then unfortunately made the acquaintance of Daniel Perreau, and after a time began living with him as his wife; they had three children. He...
Topics: bigamy, forgery, spousal abuse
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Topics: Demarest, Prudence-Catherine, Divorce, Spousal abuse
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Aug 6, 2018
08/18
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Fourré, Constance
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187 pages ; 23 cm
Topics: Spousal abuse, Marital violence, Psychological abuse, Self-help techniques, Marital violence,...
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Feb 1, 2012
02/12
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Jackson, Joshilyn
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"A novel"--Cover
Topics: Abused women, Abusive men, Spousal abuse, Family secrets
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Sep 19, 2014
09/14
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Speight, Shameek A
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Topics: Spousal abuse, Children of drug addicts, African Americans
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Sep 6, 2011
09/11
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Jackson, Joshilyn
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"A novel"--Jacket
Topics: Abused women, Abusive men, Spousal abuse, Family secrets
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May 27, 2011
05/11
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Julie Steele
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Earlier this year Julie Steele interviewed Brenda Clubine a woman who spent 26 years in prison for killing her abusive husband. Clubine was on campus for the screening of a film Sin of Silence by the Womenâs Action Council at UTC. The film features Clubine and is about an organization she founded while in prison.
Topics: Brenda Clubine, spousal abuse, domestic violence, CWAA, Convicted Women Against Abuse, prison, UTC,...
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Sep 12, 2011
09/11
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Sonkin, Daniel Jay
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Includes bibliographies and index
Topics: Family violence, Forensic psychology, Abused wives, Abused children, Child Abuse, Family, Spousal...
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Jul 17, 2015
07/15
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Wiehl, Lis W; Henry, April
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Includes discussion questions
Topics: Women lawyers, Women television journalists, Female friendship, Stalking, Spousal abuse, Abused...
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Jun 13, 2011
06/11
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Wiehl, Lis W; Henry, April
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Topics: Women lawyers, Women television journalists, Female friendship, Stalking, Spousal abuse, Abused...
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Feb 15, 2011
02/11
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Julie Steele
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A Former inmate and founder of the first inmate initiated and led group in U.S. prison history will be on the UTC campus in March for a screening of the film that tells her story. Brenda Clubine and the film are brought to campus by the UTC Womenâs Center, according to womenâs center director Sara Peters. Clubine created Convicted Women Against Abuse. She served 26 years aftr being sentenced to 16 years to life for killing her husband. She was released in 2008 after her sentence was vacated....
Topics: Brenda Clubine, spousal abuse, domestic violence, CWAA, Convicted Women Against Abuse, prison, UTC,...
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Feb 19, 2015
02/15
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Potter-Efron, Ronald T; Potter-Efron, Patricia S
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"Has also been published as Journal of chemical dependency treatment, volume 3, number 1, 1989"--Title page verso
Topics: Substance abuse, Aggressiveness, Family violence, Spousal abuse, Child Abuse, Family, Spouse Abuse,...
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Apr 24, 2016
04/16
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Funny or Die
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Topics: Funny or Die Video Archive, Caught on Tape, Goes On, Ryan Cole, abusive, battered wife, husband,...
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Sep 27, 2010
09/10
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Sonkin, Daniel Jay; Martin, Del; Walker, Lenore E
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Bibliography: p. 239-248
Topics: Family violence, Men, Family psychotherapy, Spousal abuse, Violence familiale, Hommes, Thérapie...
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Sep 15, 2014
09/14
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CrazyShitShow
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Tonight Krystal & Janella talk about Ray Rice, Adrian Peterson, Mike Tyson, and Chris Brown.
Topics: Athletes, Abuse, Child abuse, Spousal Abuse, Domestic Violence, Victims, NFL, Entertainment, Ray...
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This week on TALK! with AUDREY TV: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Joining Audrey to discuss the issue of domestic violence and prevention is Judge and Women's Rights Advocate Jeanine Pirro. Pirro has received considerable recognition for her work as a leading advocate for victims of domestic violence, enacting game-changing laws. It is hard to know exactly how common domestic violence is, because people often don't report it. There is no typical victim. It happens among people of...
Topics: searchonly, judge jeanine piro, domestic violence awareness month, spousal abuse, womens issues,...
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Sep 14, 2014
09/14
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Funny or Die
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Nicholas is so funny it will kill you.
Topics: Funny or Die Video Archive, Dr Phil, Nicholas Rizzi, Yuk Yuk's, blacks, blondes, busting, comments,...
Topics: AMERICAN INDIANS, SUBSTANCE ABUSE, TREATMENT, TECHNICAL ASSISTANCE, REHABILITATION PROGRAMS,...
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Mar 24, 2019
03/19
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Clackamas County
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We chat with #ClackCo Chief Deputy District Attorney John Wentworth about the newly-enacted law that makes acts of strangulation as part of domestic violence a felony. Filmed at A Safe Place Family Justice Center in Oregon City. More at www.asafeplacefjc.org. Find more videos at: https://www.youtube.com/user/ClackamasCounty Live Stream: http://www.clackamas.us/cable/streaming.html Website: http://www.clackamas.us/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ClackamasCounty Twitter:...
Topics: Clackamas County, Oregon, Clackamas County, Government Access TV, Community Media, PEG, Youtube,...
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Dec 1, 2018
12/18
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SC Jones, DD
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The stories of how two sisters dealt with abuse, and the hopes they shared through a Sweater and Jesus Christ. Includes Pastoral Fundraising and Outreach Plan for Victims of Domestic Violence, Poems and Bible Scripture References. { (CC) Attribution-Non Commercial-No Deriviatives- 4.0 International . Creative Rights Apply To: Publication; Story Line; Film Rights; Author's Writing, Illustrations, and Photos. }
Topics: Domestic Violence Victims Fund Raising, Public Speaking Outline, spousal abuse, Jesus Christ, Bible...
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Mar 23, 2019
03/19
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Clackamas County
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Strangulation during an act of domestic violence is now a felony in Oregon, rather than a misdemeanor. We caught up with #ClackCo Sheriff Craig Roberts and Clackamas Women's Services Executive Director Melissa Erlbaum about why the change needed to happen and what it means. Find more videos at: https://www.youtube.com/user/ClackamasCounty Live Stream: http://www.clackamas.us/cable/streaming.html Website: http://www.clackamas.us/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ClackamasCounty Twitter:...
Topics: Clackamas County, Oregon, Clackamas County, Government Access TV, Community Media, PEG, Youtube,...
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Oct 18, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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The codependent molds himself/herself and bends over backward to cater to the needs of his nearest and dearest and satisfy their every whim, wish, expectation, and demand. Nothing is too unpleasant or unacceptable if it serves to secure the uninterrupted presence of the codependent's family and friends and the emotional sustenance s/he can extract (or extort) from them. The codependent does not feel fully alive when alone. S/he feels helpless, threatened, ill-at-ease, and child-like. This acute...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Nov 4, 2010
11/10
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Sam Vaknin
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In most countries, the police must respond to your complaint. They cannot just file it away or suppress it. They must talk to you and to your partner separately and obtain written and signed statements from both parties. The police officer on the scene must inform you of your legal options. The officer in charge must also furnish you with a list of domestic violence shelters and other forms of help available in your community. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited"...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Nov 2, 2010
11/10
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Sam Vaknin
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Do not leave unprepared. Study and execute every detail of your getaway. This is especially important if your partner is violent. Be sure to make a Safety Plan â how to get out of the house unnoticed and the indispensable minimum items that you should carry with you, even on a short notice. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Apr 1, 2012
04/12
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Sam Vaknin
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Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse - click on this link: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq1.html Abusive conduct is not a uniform, homogeneous phenomenon. It stems and emanates from multiple sources and manifests in myriad ways. Following are a few useful distinctions which pertain to abuse and could serve as organizing, taxonomical principles (dimensional typologies) in a kind of matrix of pain. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 15, 2017
10/17
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Fairfax County Government
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/redirect?redir_token=4IeVcRlElbwZdhTpmPt8BEEL9Ml8MTUwODE5NDg0NEAxNTA4MTA4NDQ0&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.fairfaxcounty.gov%2Fdomesticviolence%2F&v=H0rZj_4WbLg&event=video_description If you or someone you know is experiencing any form of domestic violence, and you want to talk about options and resources available, call the 24-hour Domestic & Sexual Violence Hotline at 703-360-7273. ★ FOLLOW FAIRFAX COUNTY ★ - Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/fairfaxcounty - Twitter:...
Topics: Virginia, Fairfax, Channel 16, Fairfax County Government, Government Access TV, Community Media,...
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Oct 31, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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Audrey Michelle Talks to Sam Vaknin about Narcissism, Narcissists, and Abuse in Intimate Relationships
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Jan 18, 2011
01/11
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Sam Vaknin
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Forgiving is an important capability. It does more for the forgiver than for the forgiven. But it should not be a universal, indiscriminate behaviour. It is legitimate not to forgive sometimes. It depends, of course, on the severity or duration of what was done to you. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 2 DVDs with 12 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Dec 11, 2010
12/10
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Sam Vaknin
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First and foremost, the narcissist's partner must have a deficient or a distorted grasp of her self and of reality. Otherwise, she (or he) is bound to abandon the narcissist's ship early on. The cognitive distortion is likely to consist of belittling and demeaning herself -- while aggrandising and adoring the narcissist. The partner is, thus, placing herself in the position of the eternal victim: undeserving, punishable, a scapegoat. Sometimes, it is very important to the partner to appear...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 7, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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The Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and relationships with abusive narcissists and psychopaths: the point of view and lessons of the victims.
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 7, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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The effects on victims and survivors of traumatic experiences, long-term and repeated abuse, and torture. Includes in-depth profile of the Narcissistic Abuser and hundreds of links to literature and resources.
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 20, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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Repeated abuse has long lasting pernicious and traumatic effects such as panic attacks, hypervigilance, sleep disturbances, flashbacks (intrusive memories), suicidal ideation, and psychosomatic symptoms. The victims experience shame, depression, anxiety, embarrassment, guilt, humiliation, abandonment, and an enhanced sense of vulnerability. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase:...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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May 19, 2011
05/11
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Sam Vaknin
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Contrary to myths perpetuated by the mass media, studies show that most stalkers are men, have high IQ's, advanced degrees, and are middle aged (Meloy and Gothard, 1995; and Morrison, 2001). Rejected stalkers are intrusive and inordinately persistent. They recognize no boundaries â personal or legal. They honor to "contracts" and they pursue their target for years. They interpret rejection as a sign of the victim's continued interest and obsession with them. They are, therefore,...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Jan 8, 2018
01/18
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Sam Vaknin
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Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse - click on this link: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq1.html Act as “background noise”: ask no questions, never criticize or disagree, when addressed confine your response to the issues broached and do not introduce new topics into the conversation. In short: never initiate or be proactive – always react meekly, compliantly, and subserviently. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by...
Topics: no contact, background noise, abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv,...
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May 25, 2014
05/14
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Sam Vaknin
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Abuse survivor, poet, and spoken word artist, Audrey Michelle, talks to Sam Vaknin, author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited": How Does the Abuser See the Victims of Abuse? Audrey Michelle: https://www.facebook.com/audreymichellepoet Sam Vaknin: https://www.facebook.com/samvaknin http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com Part of the Insight Enabled series.
Topics: Survivor, victim, audrey michelle, sam vaknin, abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic...
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Oct 16, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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Assuming that you want to stay with your abuser and to maintain the "relationship", maltreatment can, to some extent, be ameliorated or even avoided. Here's How. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Dec 25, 2018
12/18
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Count Dankula
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Big thanks to MarsRPG for bringing this to everyone's attention and allowing me to use the footage. He plans to make more videos so if you guys could help him out with a sub that would be great: MarsRPG : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1Ljp8GAoiOvgGV1D0w-5Vg/feed Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TIyxO3A_s2I Uploader: Count Dankula
Topics: Youtube, video, Comedy, runescape, runescape girlfriend, poisonivylul, hanna, abuse, domestic...
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Oct 20, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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The abuser often recruits his children to do his bidding. He uses them to tempt, convince, communicate, threaten, and otherwise manipulate his target, the children's other parent or a devoted relative (e.g., grandparents). He controls his - often gullible and unsuspecting - offspring exactly as he plans to control his ultimate prey. He employs the same mechanisms and devices. And he dumps his props unceremoniously when the job is done - which causes tremendous (and, typically, irreversible)...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Dec 4, 2010
12/10
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Sam Vaknin
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At the commencement of the relationship, the Narcissist is a dream-come-true. He is often intelligent, witty, charming, good looking, an achiever, empathetic, in need of love, loving, caring, attentive and much more. He is the perfect bundled answer to the nagging questions of life: finding meaning, companionship, compatibility and happiness. He is, in other words, ideal. It is difficult to let go of this idealized figure. Relationships with narcissists inevitably and invariably end with the...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 16, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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Contrary to its name, the conflictive posture is actually about avoiding conflict by minimizing contact and insisting on boundaries. It is about refusal to accept abusive behavior by demanding reasonably predictable and rational actions and reactions. It is about respect for you and for your predilections, preferences, emotions, needs, and priorities. A healthy relationship requires justice and proportionality. Reject or ignore unjust and capricious behavior. Conflicts are inevitable even in...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 21, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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Is there anything you can do to avoid abusers and narcissists to start with? Are there any warning signs, any identifying marks, rules of thumb to shield you from the harrowing and traumatic experience of an abusive relationship? Imagine a first or second date. You can already tell if he is a would-be abuser. Here's how. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
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Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Sep 8, 2014
09/14
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Brian Abasciano
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A sermon on marriage, divorce, and remarriage by Brian Abasciano delivered on 9/7/14 at Faith Community Church, Hampton, NH. This sermon addresses the topic by looking mainly at Matthew 19:3-9, Deuteronomy 24:1-4, and 1 Corinthians 7:10-16.
Topics: Marriage, covenant, husband, wife, love, companions, companionship, marital faithfulness, divorce,...
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Oct 21, 2010
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Sam Vaknin
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Abuse in relationships has many guises: gaslighting (ambient), overt, covert, by proxy, Emotional, Verbal, and Psychological Abuse, Domestic and Family Violence and Spousal Abuse. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Feb 16, 2011
02/11
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Sam Vaknin
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Audrey Michelle talks to Lidija Rangelovska, wife of Sam Vaknin, a psychopathic narcissist and an expert on narcissism as well as author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" and other books about personality disorders and abuse in relationships.
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Nov 5, 2010
11/10
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Sam Vaknin
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In contemporary thought, incest is invariably associated with child abuse and its horrific, long-lasting, and often irreversible consequences. Incest is not such a clear-cut matter as it has been made out to be over millennia of taboo. Many participants claim to have enjoyed the act and its physical and emotional consequences. It is often the result of seduction. In some cases, two consenting and fully informed adults are involved.
Topics: incest, abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment,...
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Jan 12, 2011
01/11
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Sam Vaknin
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The victims of the narcissist's abusive conduct resort to fantasies and self-delusions to salve their pain.
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Oct 19, 2010
10/10
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Sam Vaknin
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So, you go back to your "relationship" and hope for a better ending. You walk on eggshells. You become the epitome of submissiveness, a perfect Source of Narcissistic Supply, the ideal mate or spouse or partner or colleague. You keep your fingers crossed. But how does the narcissist react to the resurrection of the bond? (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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Dec 15, 2011
12/11
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Sam Vaknin
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1. I will treat myself with dignity and demand respect from others. I will not allow anyone to disrespect me. 2. I will set clear boundaries and make known to others what I regard as permissible and acceptable behavior and what is out of bounds. 3. I will not tolerate abuse and aggression in any form or guise. I will seek to terminate such misconduct instantly and unequivocally. 4. I will be assertive and unambiguous about my needs, wishes, and expectations from others. I will not be arrogant -...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
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May 19, 2011
05/11
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Sam Vaknin
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Your abusive ex-partner will try to dazzle you with attention. Return all gifts he sends you â unopened and unacknowledged. Keep your communications with him to the bare, cold, minimum. Do not be impolite or abusive â it is precisely how he wants you to behave. It may be used against you in a court of law. Keep your cool but be firm. Do not let him re-enter your life surreptitiously. Stealth and ambient abuse are powerful tools. Refuse him entry to your premises. Do not even respond to the...
Topics: abuse, antisocial, battering, divorce, domestic violence, dsm-iv, ego, harassment, narcissism,...
